Starting the relationship was wrong. After defeating them, any illusions of a connection vanished. It felt like falling in love because you were fixated on something unattainable.
They give you the impression that you are restricting yourself in some way.
You can never be sure of your own safety when you're around them.
You will never be of any importance to them.
You are not in a partnership on an equal footing.
You will never be able to reveal your genuine self in their presence.
They will never be able to satisfy you on an emotional level.
They are unable to respect your needs in areas that are unrelated to the relationship.
They will not provide you with the commitment that you require.
They are not going to become the best friend that you require.
You are viewing the world through rose colored glasses.