You do not need to change who you are because who you are is already sufficient.
The simple fact that you are unhappy is in and of itself a valid justification for moving on.
It is acceptable for what you want to matter, as well.
Your history does not define you.
Even when you are at your most vulnerable, the strength that is inside you is undeniable.
You are valued and appreciated beyond anything you could possibly understand.
Even when no one is looking at you, you are a masterpiece in and of yourself.
Nobody is ever going to judge you as harshly as you judge yourself, and nobody ever will.
It is not necessary for you to have all of the solutions right this moment.
You are experiencing pain because your body is adapting to new conditions. Stay strong and resist giving up.
You are in complete command of your own emotions and decisions at all times, regardless of where life may lead you.
Your heart is not a weakness, it is a well of infinite strength.